In order to make anyone else happy you have to make yourself happy first. Then the love can flow and the dark days go away. Just let it happen. The happier you are, the happier you can make those around you.
I wanted to go owtside, da beans let me go owtside. It made me furry happy. Den when I see dem I give them TONS of love and purrs and leg rubs and purrs and kisses. See how it werks?